“Men and women like different things. It’s not sexism, it’s reality.” A survey of 50 people revealed the most and least popular sex positions among women.

**9. The Lotus**
Least favored, Lotus involves both partners sitting face-to-face. It’s hard to maneuver, but sex educator Lola Jean says it’s great for connection: “You are able to see their face and feel their breath.”

**8. Spooning**
A lazy, intimate position, though tricky for the right angle. Jean calls it “great for connective-ness” with minimal effort.

**7. 69**
Women find this position overwhelming. Jean explains some prefer to focus on pleasure rather than multitasking.

**3. Cowgirl – 1. Doggie**
Top favorites allow women to control or surrender power. Cowgirl puts women in charge, with Amy Levine saying it “stimulates the clitoris.” Doggie, the number one choice, offers depth and intensity, though Jean warns it can be painful without control.

Ultimately, the best position is what feels right for both partners, with communication and consent at the core.