Sex columnist Zachary Zane says the appeal is all about novelty, not real pleasure.
Educators Amy Baldwin and April Lampert agree, noting that “serious core strength” is needed, and the act is far from comfortable or practical. It’s risky too—with the potential for injury, embarrassment, or legal issues.
So why the buzz? As Zane puts it, “It’s the absurdity,” not intimacy, that people are drawn to. It’s more about going viral than creating any real connection.
And if you’re still tempted to try it? Experts offer one key piece of advice: “Put the car in park.”
